Gay Austell Pastor Speaks Out
Rev. Nadine Rawls started a group for gay Christians in Cobb, and now she's speaking out about being African-American and gay, that particular Leviticus scripture and Obama's recent announcement of support of same-sex marriage.
Rev. NaDine Rawls was ordained in 1999 in L.A. and has been ministering to the gay community ever since.
She recently began a gay Christian organization in Austell called Free to Be Me Ministries. Rawls, who has lived in Georgia for three years, said she is unconcerned about any backlash she may receive.
“I’ll deal with it when it happens,” she said.
The purpose of the organization is to provide an “open and safe space for GLBT Christians and those have yet to discover a relationship with Jesus the Christ without fear of being ridiculed, judged and damned to hell for who God has created them to be,” she said.
In 1986, two years after Rawls came out as a lesbian, she started in ministry at Metro Community Church in Shreveport, LA. She entered “mainstream denominations” in 2003 when she began ministering in a Disciples of Christ Church in Washington, DC because the denomination was “open and supportive of the lesbian and gay community,” she said.
Having churches that are open to gays is important, she explained.
“It’s important because there are churches that we were born and raised in that speak damnation to our souls and to our spirits.
“It is my desire for people to be totally faithful to the person God has designed them to be. God did not design us to hate ourselves.”
What about that particular scripture in Leviticus?
Many Christians ask Rawls how she justifies being gay with the biblical scripture Leviticus 18:22, which reads "Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination."
“It doesn’t apply. The book of Leviticus is written for Levitical priests. I’m not studying to be a priest.
Rawls replied, “We found it ironic that conservative Christians pick that one law to concentrate on when there are 599 more…The trouble is you take one law literally, but the other they ignore.”
What do you think about Obama's announcement of support for same-sex marriage?
About a month ago, President Barack Obama announced that he supports same-sex marriage.
Rawls said she was surprised and delighted about his announcement.
“He is not the president of the Heterosexual United States. He is not the president of the Homosexual United States. It’s just the United States. That means all the people. He has come to understand that people have a right to marriage.”
What do you think about the reaction to Obama's announcement from several African-American pastors?
Being gay is still somewhat taboo in the African-American community, especially in the South, Rawls explained.
She has seen the backlash from African-American pastors in the Metro Atlanta area and feels that it is a smack in the face of all the fighting done by African-Americans in the Civil Rights Movement.
“We have ancestors probably doing tornadoes in their brains. They marched in Atlanta and marched in Selma…Now they’re going to tell people not to vote because of one issue. How stupid can you be? I pray that people in these conversations will think for themselves and go vote. Marriage equality is not on the ballot.”
What advice do you have to parents of gay children?
“Parents, it is not your choice as to how your children will come into this world…Your job is to love them and to do anything less than that, you’re not being totally faithful.”
What do you tell people who say you can’t be gay and a Christian?
“Watch me.”
What do you think about Cobb's newest group for gay Christians? Will Obama's recent announcement change how you vote in the presidential election? Tell us below in the comments.
Rod Voss
10:37 am on Saturday, June 9, 2012
I admire her courage in the face of a lot of small minded Cobb County people. Bigots don't seem to realize that God is infinite and can't be boxed in by their small ideas. Some day they'll get it...
Larry DeBose
11:05 am on Saturday, June 9, 2012
We have to be Christ like. Not Christ be manlike. I don't believe it is small minded for some of us, but a deeper relationship and understanding of the entire word.
Raymond Goswick
11:09 am on Saturday, June 9, 2012
God's Word is Truth! nadine rawls soul is at stake and the others that she's deceiving with this garbage. I pray for them.
Greg M
12:21 pm on Saturday, June 9, 2012
It's so sad those who want to ignore the sin that is homosexuality by calling Christians "small minded".
There are those who like to say that the Bible does not condemn homosexuality. Various verses are cited (out of context), and the verses that people use to show that homosexuality is wrong are explained away. The world wants to change God's words and meanings into something more suitable to its sinful desires.
1 Cor. 6:9-10, "Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived;....... nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, ...shall inherit the kingdom of God."
Rom. 1:26-28, "For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, 27 and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error. 28 And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God any longer, God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do those things which are not proper."
Homosexuality is clearly condemned by the Bible. It goes against the created order of God who created Adam, a man, and then made Eve, a woman. This is what God has ordained as the normal means by which we carry out his command to fill the earth (Gen. 1:28). What God has set up is what is right -- not what sinful man sets up.
Greg M
12:29 pm on Saturday, June 9, 2012
It's not about being a bigot, it's the difference between what I know the BIble to say and what it says about sin. You can call it what you like but when I stand before God I want to know that I followed the word he laid out for us to follow. I'm not capabel of rewriting the word of God. It clearly states any several locations the sin that is homosexuality. I don't hate homosexuals, I pray for them. We all sin. But living on that sin and trying to justify it as something else that's not sin is not only stupid but dangerous. I believe some people are born with the desire to harm or sexually abuse children but accepting and cultivating that sin is wrong. We all have some inner selfish sin or many sins. We were born sinners but God forgives them...but only when we repent of those sins and turn from them. Embracing the sin and saying it's not a sin does not make it not a sin. That would be nice and all but we aren't God. My ideas come from God I didn't create them like you seem to have done.
Why don't you read the Bible and then try talking to God. He won't lead you to think sin is okay. That's your small minded way of approaching life. God is inifinite but that has nothing to do with what accepting or changing the standards of sin that have already been set before us.
Rev. NaDine Rawls
10:34 pm on Tuesday, June 12, 2012
Mr. Voss -- they put Jesus in a tomb and He got up and today some still want to put Him in a box -- nope they still don't get it.
CG
9:14 pm on Sunday, August 5, 2012
Ok, let's do this. All of you Child molesters, and bestiality lovers, come on into the church and be accepted just like "Rev" Nadine has done with the Gays. We're not going to ask you to "change" your ways, we understand you were born that way. There really is no such thing as "sin", God made you just the way you are and we love you and your sin. signed, The Devil
Larry DeBose
11:01 am on Saturday, June 9, 2012
Sad! Sad! Sad! If that's the case I might as well start a church for gang bangers and dope dealers. I have compassion for all of the world who are lost and don't realize what building a relationship with God consists of. It is growing out of our old ways and abstaining from any appearance of evil. God designed us to procreate and be fruitful. We do have the right of free will, but we are also suppose to be more like Jesus. Love one another, and accept one another. But as we grow we need to be willing to lay down the sins we know about, and live for Christ.
Kiri Walton
11:16 am on Saturday, June 9, 2012
I thought church was for gangbangers and dope dealers. I believe church is for all of us sinners. My pastor always said that church is a hospital, meaning we don't go there because we're well, but because we know we are broken. Another pastor I had always said if you find a perfect church, you better not go there because you'll mess it up. It's funny, but has a great message.
I also agree that if we are following Christ, we should be striving to become more and more like him in our daily lives, which includes laying down those things we used to do that are not of Him.
Larry DeBose
7:28 pm on Sunday, June 10, 2012
Church is for all of us sinners, but we need to grow in God. Repent from our sins and no longer committ them. I was saying a church for gangbangers and dope dealers that advocated their behavior. Justifying it somehow with a worped understanding of the bible. I am nothing close to perfect and thank God for His hospitals!! Heal me Lord!!
Pastor Byron G. Zealey
12:25 pm on Wednesday, June 13, 2012
Its actually a good idea Larry. When God told me to start a church (which I had no intention of doing by the way) It is a church for gay people, gang bangers, drug dealers, homeless people. This should be the congregational makeup of all churches but THAT does not happen routinely because of all too often the church's lofty perceptions of itself. Your suggestion is that any of these people cannot conform into the image of Christ and further that the blood of Jesus was not sufficient sacrifice for all sin. If indeed homosexuality is a sin, is not the blood of Jesus enough to pay for it. Just as it is enough to pay for your daily sins. SAD! SAD! SAD! that you think that he blood of Jesus was only shed for you and yours and nobody else. Not good enough for those heterosexual couple that CAN'T procreate. Be more like Jesus. Jesus never married and spent most of his time around 12 men (sounds pretty gay to me) hanging with the rejects of society(something the churc rarely wants to do) Homosexility is indeed one of those thing that WE DO NOT KNOW about because the Bible does not contain sufficient reliable evidence that it is indeed a sin. Those who are gay must pursue relationship with God by faith Just like anyone else does. And No one has the authority to deny prohibit or interfere with ones pursuit of Relationship with God through Faith in Jesus Christ whether they procreate or not. And those who do WILL give account for distorting the scriptures leading the little ones astray.
Pam J
11:55 am on Saturday, June 9, 2012
I guess I don't understand why gay people have to tell us that they are gay. I don't go around telling everybody that I am straight. I may not agree with the gay lifestyle, but I accept that it is your right to be that way. I just don't need to know which way you "swing".
Vickie Watkins
12:45 pm on Saturday, June 9, 2012
She need to know that born again christians are royal priest adopted into the royal family. WHAT APPLIED TO THE PRIEST IN LEVITICUS APPLIES MORE SO NOW. UNDER GRACE AND MERCY all should be able to understand what applies and it is written in the new testament in ROMANS THE 1ST CHAPTER AND THE 24,25, 26, AND 27 VERSES READ THE WHOLE 1ST CHAPTER.
Sharon Johnson
12:51 pm on Tuesday, June 12, 2012
Eaten any shrimp lately? What about cheese burgers?
deistlady76
1:00 pm on Tuesday, June 12, 2012
So have you worn a polyester blend? Oh and do people with sight problems get allowed into church? How about a pork chop? Have you eaten one?
Greg M
12:47 pm on Saturday, June 9, 2012
Kiri you are correct. Jesus told the Pharisees in Luke 5, after they questioned him why was he sitting at the table with tax collectors and other sinners, Jesus said I came to save the sick, the lost and those needing a doctor. Meaning we need to share Christ with everyone especially those who need Him most. Yes everyone is welcome in church whether it be gang bangers, homosexuals, prostitutes, murderers however they must be coming realizing they are "sick" that they need help and seeking God and His righteousness.
As Christians we are not to accept their sin and tell them "it's okay", God will understand you were born that way. God has already laid the plans out for us, what makes me mad is those people that keep trying to change God and or say "That's not what God says". Or they call Christians close minded, small minded or whatever other adjectives they come up with for us. No respect for our beliefs as Christians.
I will say I do not condone violence or hatred toward homosexuals they have sin just like the rest of us. We should love them but pray for them.
Albert
2:06 pm on Saturday, June 9, 2012
God has created a plateform here on earth for us to choose heaven or hell. So should our government. Our government should seperate it self as much as it can from the many reliegions that exist in the USA and give as many rights to people to be free to choose that does not do harm to other fellow citizens.
With that said, It up to the church and it's belivers to uphold God's word. I don't quote scripture like I should as a believer, but I don't believe a Christian Church should condone any sin. This is including homosexuallity and Gay Marriage in the church.
I will fight wars for any one of my fellow citizens to have the right to choose heaven or hell, but for me and my house I choose to love the Lord, and live each day trying my best to become closer to him.
Rev. NaDine Rawls
7:12 am on Monday, June 11, 2012
Albert,
Thank you for your service to this country -the United States. I had a great uncle who served in WW II and yet he was treated as a second class citizen. I had two uncles who served in the Korean War and were also -due to the color of their skin were treated as such and yet were allowed to fight for this country.
Marriage is a right -- has nothing to do with the church.
As you grow in your Christian faith and learn scripture -- the church you go to bible study in, make sure they teach you more about how the scripture came about - bottom line -- Jesus didn't say EVERYTHING.
I am a member of one of the mainstream denominations that is an Open and Affirming Congregation and we are studying the Five Gospels of what Jesus said and did He really say them -- I find it quiet interesting.
Rev. NaDine Rawls
7:07 am on Monday, June 11, 2012
Kiri, thank you for the opportunity to talk about Free to Be ministries. Thanks to those in the community who support Marriage Equality.
To those who are concerned about my soul - I tell you like I tell my Mother -- the destination of my soul is between me and God. What I do here on earth for God is more important to Him then who I sleep with.
To those who believe homosexuality is a sin -- that is your belief, it used to be mine until I was taught more about the scripture by theologians - heterosexual as well as homosexual theologian who came out of your seminary schools. Those who have spent years translating scripture back to it's original meaning. And oh, the word homosexuality was not placed in the bible until the 1930's so don't lead people to believe it was always there -- it wasn't.
"Your Belief isn't always truth" Elder Claude Bowen
People have always used certain scriptures that we in the life call "homosexual scriptures" -education has thought me that "text, without context, is just pretext."
You don't know the spiritual journeys of Christians, raised in your churches who when discovered they were gay or lesbian, did not find the churches in which they were raised to be a hospital where they could go to receive healing. But found it to be a place of condemnation, hatefulness and lack of love. It says, "Whosoever will, let them come." Free to Be Ministries is definitely a "Whosoever" place and a safe place for ALL GOD'S CHILDREN!
Sharon Johnson
1:09 pm on Tuesday, June 12, 2012
Rev. Rawls,
Thank you for your ministry and the wisdom that you shared here. I don't know what it will take for people to get it through their heads that marriage equality is a constitutional issue, not a religious issue. Their religious beliefs should have no bearing on my civil rights. When it comes to the laws of this country, the constitution trumps the Bible every time. There is a good reason for separation of church and state.
YingYang
10:18 am on Monday, June 11, 2012
Rev Nadine Crawls...Stand~Up!!!!
Tks!! ~YINGYANG~
Charles Klughart
6:29 pm on Monday, June 11, 2012
it is sad that anyone can even consider calling their self a pastor and esp a Christian Pastor when they teach sin is not only acceptable but a blessing. By doing this they take away and tarnish the real message of the cross.
Yes I wish the room was full of gays, lesbian, drug users and gang people every time I preached, but they are not going to hear that using drugs is acceptable, they are not going to hear that the gang life is acceptable and they are not going to hear that being gay is acceptable.
Jesus would have preached and sat down at the table with all of them. And he would as he did he would forgive them and tell them to GO and SIN NO MORE. The trouble is, that the sinner wants to hear their sins are great and God loves to see them sin.
These pastors face far worst at judgement since they will have to answer for the 100's or 1000's that they have lead astray since too many will accept their teachings as real Christian teachings, which of course they are not.
These types of churches have long lost the real message of the cross.
So which sin shall we make next. When one stops following the real message of Christ they are now religious, but not Christian.
Rev. NaDine Rawls
7:02 am on Tuesday, June 12, 2012
The message of Jesus the Christ is Love. The message of Jesus the Christ is not to throw people out of the churches because of their sexuality and choosing to live the truth of whom God made them to be. I became a Christian prior to God revealing my sexuality to me. My journey and that of others of reconciling our spirituality with our sexuality - you and others will never know because you were not given that path. The journey of reconciling our sexuality with the Love of Jesus the Christ - you will never know because it was not your path. The journey a young teenager goes through in realizing they are not like the other siblings in the household and how do have this discussion with my parents and how are they going to react because of their biblical and religious beliefs -- you will never know that pain because you were not given that path. Bishop Rainey Cheeks of Washington DC states he was asked the question "why did God make us this way." He said he paused and thought about it for a minute and his response was "maybe God wanted to see how other Christians would treat us." Now there you have it!
Albert
10:56 pm on Monday, June 11, 2012
Some things are good and sound natural laws. Like eating good, exercising, not smoking, not doing drugs and breathing. It does not take a scientist to figure out the reason why some species on earth have opposite sexes. To reproduce which is a natural law. Sure its everyone free will to do unnatural things. We have many birth defect and mental illness in our society. I do support strengthing Civil Unions because LBGT pay taxes also. I'm not in favor of the government treating any one as second class citizens. I'm not in favor of our USA government imposing religous view upon a soiciety of citzen of many religions. When I was married I look at my marriage as a civil contract between to people that could be broken, but I also look at my marrage in the church as a covinient between myself, God, and mywife that no man could break.
I'm not a member of the Taliban, but moving the word of God in this direction just don't sit well with me, and I "personally" could not sit in a church or agree with a church that would move the word in this direction.
We can agree to disagree, Only God can judge. I have to stand before him just like everyone else.
deistlady76
1:05 pm on Tuesday, June 12, 2012
you do realize that more than 1500 species of animals have homosexuality inherent within the species. So apparently it is natural. You are reading a book that was written in a time when these facts were not known. I think that its just fear of the other that makes people cling to "homosexuality is a sin" It doesn't make sense that a loving God would create people a certain way and then condemn them.
Sharon Johnson
1:24 pm on Tuesday, June 12, 2012
Albert, are you suggesting that the only reason for marriage and sex is for procreation? Surely you realize that people who are infertile, beyond child bearing age, or those who choose to live child-free get married all the time. Are they living in sin as well or are they somehow not living according to the laws of nature? When Paul spoke about "natural law" in the scripture, he was referring to what was "commonly done". At one point he said that it is not "natural" for a man to have long hair. Well common sense would tell you that cutting the hair is what is 'unnatural'. Letting it grow would be 'natural' unless what is considered 'natural' is determined by cultural values. If natural is determined by culture, it ceases to be 'natural' because 'natural' implies that it is outside of cultural influence. Just a thought.
Many straight Christians want to somehow suggest that if we are given the right to marry legally it will somehow destroy the whole institution of marriage. Currently, one out of every 2 marriages (heterosexual) ends in divorce. If this is such a sacred institution for you guys, why is it taken so lightly? We have not harmed marriage, straight folks have.
Albert
4:39 am on Wednesday, June 13, 2012
Sharon, sex is one of the many ways to show solidarity and effection in a marriage, but the primary purpose for intercourse is human reproduction. (We should find some common ground there I hope) As a christian I believe that sex outside of marriage is a sin. As a christian I believe that God's word is establish to create life more abundanly because he loves us. I believe that his words is a guide to purify our temple (body), and our community.
Sharon, I do realize that there are people that are infertile due to birth defects or injury. Because our bodies are not perfect and fully function do not make us sinners. Going against the teachings of God make us sinners IF that's what you believe. Out of the thousands of religions I personally believe in one God , made up of the Son, the Father, & the Holy Spirit.
If Mrs. Rawls could establish that homosexuality is a birth defect or a mental disorder, verses a personal choice. I think that would reframe the whole argument. How do we reconcile the fact that we have some citizens born with both genitelia. What if the doctor choice the wrong sexuality. Would we have condem that person to sin for the rest of their lives?
Albert
11:39 pm on Monday, June 11, 2012
I wish that our president would clarify himself on this issue. The issue is the belief of seperation of Church and State.
If he would have said that he is in favor of strengthening Civil Union between two "People". I could support his statement whole heartedly. This statement gives two "People" (Tax Paying Citzens) equal protection and rights under the USA law to enter a legal contract. If everyone was issued a Civil Union Liecense vs. a Marriage Liecense with the same rights and an provision to inharit property and make end of life decisions for their partner that would be a good thing for our Goverment & Society.
I disagree with the presidents use of the term of Marriage. This term alone crosses over into a religious term that mean in the christian church a covinient between not two "people" but a Man, God, & a women. I think we should let the Church keep the sacrete term of Marriage in the church.
And our Government use the term of Civil Union for all.
Just my thoughts...
Rev. NaDine Rawls
7:06 am on Tuesday, June 12, 2012
Albert -- actually there are some in the GLBT community that would agree with you. Some will take the term Civil Unions -- just make sure we have all the same federal and states rights and different gendered couples. PERIOD.
Sharon Johnson
1:38 pm on Tuesday, June 12, 2012
Actually, marriage has always been more of a legal institution rather than a religious one. Marriage was started in ancient times in order to provide some degree of protection and support for women and children. Weddings are performed in churches by some religious official, and are endowed with the religious and spiritual trappings that go along with a particular religious belief (as well they should), but you are not legally married in this country until the state (government) says you are. Without the license from the state, even if you go through the wedding ceremony in the church, you are not married. On the other hand, you can have a totally non-religious wedding outside of the church (Justice of the Peace, for instance) and have a perfectly legal marriage with the license. My point is that marriage is a legal, binding contract between two people and in some instances, it is also sanctioned and blessed by the church.
Albert
4:52 am on Wednesday, June 13, 2012
I'm suggesting that Government should adopt the term of Civil Union for all contracts between two people. In efforts to seperate church and state, leave the term of marriage for the religous community to defind in their perspective churches. The church I belong to defines marriage between a man, God & a women.
When my church stops defining marriage in this manner that will be a deal breaker for me. I will have to move on to a church that uphold the Word of God as he has revealed it to me in our personal relationship.
If my country drops the term marriage and start using the term "Civil Union". And define it as a contract between two people. I would not have a problem with that.
I attended a justice of the peace marriage or "Civil Union" last week. I thought it was odd that the judge used a lot of religous terms in the ceromony. As if everyone of the 12 couples was of the same religous belief as he. Do you feel that the Governmental servent was correct in using his office to subject the citizens to his person religous ceromny. I wasn't that I disagreed with his ceromny, but I was suprised that everyone in the room was cool with it. What if the Judge was a muslum?
Rev. NaDine Rawls
10:48 pm on Wednesday, June 13, 2012
Marriage is indeed more of a legal ceremony then one required by the church. You go to the county office and obtain a marriage license and once the couple is married the officiant signs the license and mails it in to the appropriate state office. I've married heterosexual couples before and not once have I sent notification to the National Baptist, Methodist, or the Episcopal headquarters that I've now joined together in marriage a couple of their parishioners. No, just to the state. They're the only ones that want to know and the couple receive a couple of the marriage license for display.
Te Holman
7:45 am on Tuesday, June 12, 2012
I would like to thank the Reverend for her courage and honesty. I would also implore those who call themselves Christians to reserve judgment for God.
Greg M
9:07 am on Tuesday, June 12, 2012
You keep saying we are "judging" you or other's in the GLBT community. Perhaps some do but Christians aren't judging we are merely stating what the Bible teaches and through "love" not hate we must share what our beliefes are. I don't hate you Rev. Rawls nor any other gay's in the world. Hate isn't from God. But I do hate sin. I think we allmost stand up for what we believe is right in our own eyes just as you have done. It's not judgement, that's for God to handle. But we can't simply sit back and ignore something we see as wrong through Gods eye's and say nothing.
We must share our belief and hope that you and others who advocate gay marriage and/or preach that gay marriage is favorable in God's eyes won't be judged harshly by God. Look if Christians didn't care about your soul we'd just let you crash and burn and carry everyone else with you. But I don't won't to be standing before God one day and He say "Why didn't you share the truth, their blood is on your hands now." I don't wish anyone to be condemned to eternal death.
Rev. NaDine Rawls
12:08 am on Thursday, June 14, 2012
Greg,
But some people aren't saying anything -- their silence gives consent to leaders who wish us rounded up like cattle and placed in electrically charged fences and left for dead -- that out of the mouth of a man who professes to be called by God. When a GLBT person or even a female tells their Pastor of oh so many years they have been called by God to Preach the Gospel and their Pastor tell them No they haven't because they are gay or female -- that's human judgement.
I refuse to believe that God made me and others this way and then because of human belief and interpretation -- expect us not to be in loving, respectful, honest, relationships. That in and of itself would be cruel and the God I serve is not a cruel God. Greg, I too will have to stand before God and account for what I have done but more importantly I believe how I have treated people. And if that treatment has been without the most important ethic and that being the Love ethic - then yes, I should worry. I don't and I won't for as we say down in the country "I'm going to run on and see what the end is going to be,"
Peace,
Greg M
9:08 am on Tuesday, June 12, 2012
So to Te I say, please don't say I am judging anyone, that is reserved for God however because the Bible teaches differently we are taught in church to share our beliefs in what it says. The Bible (God's word) judges, God judges not us as Christians but the guidelines for how that is laid out is all written down for any of us to read. Christians are by no means better than anyone else, we are simply saved from our sins because we acknowledge that we have them and we sought forgiveness. My sins are just as bad as anyone, no one sin is worse than another HOWEVER I don't try to continue to live in my sin, I strive to live a life modeled after Jesus himself and a pure life. I won't make it perfect because I can't but God would not forgive me if I just purposely continued to keep living in sin with no real attempt to redeem myself. If your child kept doing the same disobedient act over and over but came to you in the evening every day and said "please forgive me" and you saw that their asking forgiveness wasn't truly genuine, what would you do?
deistlady76
1:09 pm on Tuesday, June 12, 2012
I see all these people talking about sin and I know that the same arguments were used to oppress others throughout history. The bottomline is its ok for you to believe what you believe but you don't have the right to force it on others that don't believe the same.
Sharon Johnson
5:24 pm on Wednesday, June 13, 2012
Albert
You suggest that being gay is a birth defect, mental disorder or personal choice. For me and all the gay people I know or have read about or listened to, being gay is just the way we were born. Very much like being born left handed. Do you know that the Christian church at one time considered left handed people to be sinners and thought the sin/devil could be prayed or beat out of them. I was born this way. It is not a choice and it is not up for debate. You are looking from the outside in. I look from the inside out. The only thing that is being asked of Christian straight people is that you at least consider the
possibility that you are mistaken. You tell us all the time that we are wrong. I would ask you to respect us enough
to believe that gay Christians have struggled in our effort to reconcile our spirituality with our sexuality and the struggle has not been easy. Most of us don't take it lightly. Many of us have thought about, read about, and studied about this issue for years. Just like black folk are the experts on being black, we are the experts on being gay. I say again this is NOT A CHOICE. God made me this way and I am fearfully and wonderfully made. God's works are amazing. My soul (looking from the inside) knows them
well.
Rev. NaDine Rawls
11:34 pm on Wednesday, June 13, 2012
Sharon,
I couldn't have said it any better. God knew us when we were in the womb of our Mother. He knew who we would be before our parents were our parents. How can religious people think that God wouldn't know who we would be --that's what get's me! For those in the GLBT community who have reconciled their spirituality with their sexuality, we understand there are others to come behind us that will face the same challenges.
At one time the Black Christian church judged their own race by their skin tone by placing a bark on the door with a sign if you were the color of the bark, you couldn't enter. Oh how much damage has been done in the NAME OF!
Albert
8:10 am on Thursday, June 14, 2012
Sharon,
The reason I ask that we consider homosexuality a birth defect, or a mental disorder because this human design that you are talking about will not carry on our species as humans. If you and I was the last people on the planet of our species, what will be the future of the human races? I will think that you will consider one of us defective. I will consider both of us defective. You a mental disorder, and me a physical disorder because until today I can't have kids. Maybe one day God will see fit to do a mircle on both of us. :-)
Rev. NaDine Rawls
6:01 am on Thursday, June 14, 2012
Maybe some of you will relax if you listen to Rev. Frederick Haynes III of Friendship West Baptist Church of Dallas, TX. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s2yIaNSFBBw
He ask you some answers that only you can answer.
Sharon Johnson
1:38 pm on Thursday, June 14, 2012
Albert
First of all I don't have a mental disorder. Secondly the scenario you painted (last people on earth) is a rediculus one. Nobody is suggesting that all people become gay. God did not make all people gay just like God didn't make all people straight. God created variety in all of nature There are different kinds of everything. Why is it difficult to believe that being gay is just another way God interjected variety in God's creation. Lastly if we were the last two people on earth and concerned about the propagation of the species I am perfectly capable of having sex with a man in order to get pregnant. Being gay isn't just about who you have sex with. In large part it is about who you can emotionally bond with. So in the end of your scenario my "mental disorder" as you call it could be overcome. Yours however could not.
Lisa
9:05 pm on Saturday, June 16, 2012
As Christians, when we try to whip folk into action with oppressive rhetoric & guilt-inducing sermons, we tear down ‘the body’ & ‘the Body of Christ’. If God is willing to open His arms & affirm all of us, who are we not to do the same? What baffles me is that in all of the discussions that those who use scripture to oppress & exclude often cite, they never mention Matthew 22:36-40. We’re so caught up in damning people to hell because of their sexual orientation or because of who they choose to marry, that it sometimes seems as if we forgot about the simple act of love that God commanded us to show to ourselves & to one another. Truth be told, some of us “good church folk” can sometimes be the most divisive, judgmental & exclusionary people in the world. God brought us together, sons & daughters all of us & made us all one family as He taught us how to love one another & God’s love knows no boundaries. In God’s perfect economy, we are one…we are family…we are brothers & sisters with a Creator who loves each of us exactly as the great I Am created each of us to be. I have to wonder what our lives & our world would look like if we extended to one another, the love God commands us to show? A love/world without prejudice. A love/world absent of judgment. I wonder what our lives & our world would look like if we were to simply love others, not because of who they are or what they do, but because of who God is...
Sharon Johnson
5:08 am on Sunday, June 17, 2012
Lisa, very well said. In the end the command to love really does out weigh all else. For those who say "I love the sinner but hate the sin", I say you cannot love me and discriminate against me at the same time. You cannot love me and see and treat me as "other" at the same time. You cannot profess to love me and not see me as your equal in all things. You cannot love me and not see me as a beautiful child of the most high God. It is easy to say that you love all people. It is much harder to live out that love regardless of how you feel about my supposed "sin". Let God be God. I trust God to judge me fairly. I need you to simply love me as I will endeavor to love you.
Rev. NaDine Rawls
1:22 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
Albert,
I have to disagree with you referring to yourself as having a physical disorder. Your statement has bothered me since reading it. During the reading of our Father's Day Litany it hit me "We also give thanks for those men who have not children, but cherish the next generation as if they were their own. We pray for those men who have "fathered" us in their role as mentors and guides." I thought about you. I'm sure there are other gifts and talents God has endowed you with that will allow you to bless deserving kids as a "father figure" in the same way you would as if you had biological kids -- one of those gifts is simply "TO LOVE." Peace
Albert
1:40 am on Wednesday, June 20, 2012
thanks Mrs. Rawls. for thinking about me. I have accepted my purpose, but will welcome a miricle also...